My blogging is still decidedly patchy but I really enjoy Kaggsy and Simon’s Club weeks, so I was determined to take part in this week’s 1976 Club. So far it’s shaping up to be another excellent selection so do head over to their blogs to see all links to reviews 😊
I decided to go with two authors I’m very fond of, but who perhaps don’t provide the sharpest contrast… these are two short, spiky novels, darkly humorous and incisive in their portrayals of ordinary lives.
Firstly, A Quiet Life by Beryl Bainbridge. The cover of my edition has a quote from Hilary Mantel calling it ‘one of the funniest books I have ever read’, which tells me that Hilary Mantel and I have very different senses of humour. There are definitely funny moments in A Quiet Life but, like a lot of Bainbridge’s writing, I found it pretty bleak too.
Set just after the end of the Second World War, it tells the story of a family from the point of view of the eldest son Alan. Living in a coastal town near Liverpool (probably Formby, where Beryl grew up), his parents are very much unhappily married.
Once well-off, they now live in straightened circumstances. His mother expected more, going to a finishing school abroad and marrying a self-made man, who now unfortunately, has lost all he made. Theirs is a house of loaded silences, resentments, bickering, secrets and frustration.
“The marble statue of Adam and Eve, recently brought down from the landing, was shaky on its pedestal. Even the row of decorative plates, painted with roses and hunting scenes, might roll on their shelf above the door and bounce upon the red carpet. Madge said it was like walking through a minefield.”
Bainbridge captures perfectly the constant repressed tensions of living in such a situation. There is no honesty here, just lives of quiet desperation as his mother reads romantic fiction and his father struggles in isolation.
“Though the war was over, Father was still caught in a cross-fire, harassed by battles, by phantom cities tumbling about his ears. This moment – as then – he could be slumped over the driving wheel, hands raised in an abject gesture of surrender.”
Meanwhile their two children muddle through. Depressingly, Alan sees his future playing out just like his parents. This doesn’t particularly bother him, despite the fact that:
“He always did as he was told and he resented that no-one noticed.”
Meanwhile, Madge his sister runs wild, doing exactly what she likes and knowing how to manipulate her way out of any repercussions. She isn’t remotely vicious, she just knows what will enable her to do what she wants.
“She didn’t seem to grasp that it was the trouble she caused him personally that was his main concern. He was long past marshalling the reasons for his parents behaviour […] All he wanted was for Madge to stay indoors at night, so he needn’t return to find his father jumping up and down, demented, at the kerb.”
The dejection and anxiety of all their lives – except possibly Madge, who seems determined to carve out something more – is brilliantly captured by Bainbridge in small, telling details. In a world where no-one says very much and very little happens, she manages to build the tension to breaking point, to an ordinary, sadly predictable tragedy.
‘We had a garden when your father and I were first married, big enough for a game of tennis. We had a maid called Matty. We had so much space…You have no idea what it was like.’ She stood by the hearth, one foot resting on the cracked tiles.
‘We’ve got space now,’ said Madge from the floor. ‘You won’t let us use it.’
Alan thought suddenly it was why Madge went out so much, why he did himself. There wasn’t room for them. If he had his way he’d light a fire every day in the lounge and lie full-length upon the good-as-new sofa.”
Secondly, Afternoon of a Good Woman by Nina Bawden. The titular woman is Penelope, ironically named as she herself observes, as she is not a faithful wife but plans to leave her husband Eddie and her two daughters for her lover, after she has finished her afternoon’s work as a Justice of the Peace.
“Will they blame me? I hope not. I have taught them to be tolerant as I have taught them regular habits and sound ethical principles. The only thing I have failed to teach them, I sometimes think guiltily, is how not to be boring.”
The afternoon she spends in court sees her reflect on her life so far, her choices and attitudes. It is not only her major life-altering decision that is prompting this introspection:
“Someone has sent me twenty aspirins in a brown envelope, and that anonymous accusation rumbles on in the depths of my mind like a monotonous menacing drum, sharpening my sympathies with all accused persons, alerting my memory, forcing me to examine my own failures, seek out my own guilt.”
This unnerving situation adds a sense of foreboding, or even slight menace, to the day. Yet there is insidious violence throughout Penelope’s experiences, which gradually emerge.
Penelope sees herself at the more liberal end of society’s views:
“ ‘Do you think old, respectable aunts should not be listened to?’ The Judge smiles politely. He knows about compassionate lady magistrates, that smile says; all their soft-hearted arguments.
I am stung. Does he think I am not worth listening to?”
Yet some of her views expressed in this novel are deeply disturbing: “Some women invite [flashers] behaviour”; “Girls often pretend to be more upset than they are. It’s expected of them.”
As well as her internalised misogyny, Penelope has to manage the daily sexism of a 1970s workplace, a mix of being patronised and/or lusted after. The condescending Judge invites her to a lunch that is clearly more than a meal…
As she reflects on her relationship with her step-brother Steve, step-sister April’s violent marriage, and her step-mother Eve’s mental ill health, I think Penelope is supposed to be callow and unthinking, certainly in terms of how she viewed April’s violent marriage when she was younger. However, Penelope is not wholly unlikable, mainly because she doesn’t cut herself much slack and she does try to help people, however misguidedly. She doesn’t justify what she’s doing or try to make it better than it is. She simply explains how she reached that point:
“My life, my active, happy, purposeful life suddenly seemed empty to me, dreary and useless. The speed with which this had happened was terrifying. One minute I was walking calmly along, feet on firm ground, the next I had tumbled into this frightening black chasm. How had it happened? Why did I feel like this? It was more than unhappiness.”
Afternoon of a Good Woman feels like a snapshot in time, not only of Penelope’s life but also of 1970s attitudes to women, violence, crime, sexual behaviour (Eddie’s preferences are detailed and Penelope’s affair is a somewhat contentious relationship, even without the betrayal), sexual assault, work and family, public versus private personas. For a short novel it covers a lot of ground, and manages to do so with ease. I’m really glad I read it for the 1976 Club as it felt very much of it’s time.
“And indeed, to be fair to myself (and if I can’t be fair to myself, how can I be trusted to be fair to others?), in the magistrates court, where I sit almost weekly, the margin of error that puts me on the side of the judges and not of the judged sometimes seems very narrow.”
To end, of course the 1970s give me an opportunity to indulge my love of David Bowie. In 1976 he starred in The Man Who Fell to Earth:


I remember seeing The Man Who Fell to Earth twice in the same week.
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It’s held up pretty well I think!
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It has – I watched it on TV a few years ago expecting to be disappointed but wasn’t.
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You’ve made me happy with these reviews and with your David Bowie reference.
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Ahh, that’s great! Thanks Marina Sofia 😊
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Great to see you back here and joining in the 1976 club and with a bonus Bowie, one I don’t know about but shall look forward to discovering.
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Thank you Claire 😊 I really enjoy blogging but it’s been hard over the last year. I hope you enjoy the film if you get to it!
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I always enjoy reading your reviews, so I’m glad you found a way back. There’s something enjoyable about participating on a theme, even if it’s just reading the reviews which I’m doing.
The trailer looks interesting, I’m curious.
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That’s so kind, thanks! I agree, even when you don’t take part in a theme it’s always enjoyable to see the different reading and reviews.
It is an interesting film, Bowie plays an alien. I’m not a big sci-fi viewer but it’s very watchable.
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I’m very fond of both these authors, who represent my first really independent reading i.e. not guided by my parents, my school or university. It was my feminist friends who said, you must read Bainbridge, you must read Bawden (and also, you must read Fay Weldon). What a wonderful time it was for books that really spoke to our lives as young women!
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A great time for reading! It’s always so wonderful to find something that really captures a familiar experience or feeling. Weldon is the author I’ve read least, I’d like to explore her further. I hope young people today have authors that speak to them in the same way.
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I was really expecting the Wurzels’ video at the end – most of me is happy it was Bowie, but there’s a small part that is driving me towards youtube for the Combine Harvester. Thanks, I think! 😉 The Beryl Bainbridge book sounds interesting. I’ve only read one of hers, Harriet Said, and really meant to read more, but you know how that goes! And now I want egg’n’chips too…
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Haha! I couldn’t give everyone that earworm – no-one would ever visit my blog again!
I really like Bainbridge, even though sometimes her view really is disconcerting (she has an odd way of looking at rape in some novels). I think you’d like more of her work FF, she keeps it short! I’ve not read Harriet Said but one day…as you say!
Egg ‘n’ chips for lunch? 🙂
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But you gave it to us anyway!!! Waaaaaaaah.
(I’ll still come back.)
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I’m so sorry 😀
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Yes, I was expecting the worzels at the end too! Bowie is very much preferred! Two great reviews, Mme B; the Bawdon particularly appeals. And takes me straight back to the seventies too.
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I wouldn’t do that to you Sandra 😀 The Bawden felt very evocative of the seventies, I hope you enjoy it if you get to it, she’s a great writer.
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I am really keen to read more Bainbridge (have only read one) and I did love that Wurzels song back in the day 🙂
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She’s a great writer, I hope you enjoy exploring her further Cathy.
I also loved The Wurzels as a kid 😀
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I really like the quote that starts with the marble statue of Adam and Eve – there’s something menacing about it, despite the domestic setting! It sounds a little bit like some of Muriel Spark’s work…slightly skewed or off-kilter, if that makes sense.
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She’s not as deeply skewed as Spark but she’s definitely off-kilter, you’re right! They share a brooding menace for sure. Even though my world isn’t as dark or odd as Bainbridge or Spark, I really enjoy them both 🙂
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I’m thinking about the Wurzels now and egg ‘n’ chips, ha ha!! These both sound brilliant and both ring true. The internal misogyny held by women shows how saturated our society was and is in patriarchal values, ‘what did she expect’ or ‘she was asking for it’ is still apparent I think, although to a lesser extent by women I hope.
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Wurzels and chips – simple pleasures 😀
I agree, sadly those attitudes do remain but I think they are improving.
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So glad to see you posting and joining us for 1976, Madame B! And interesting choices – I’ve not read Bainbridge but have read Bawden and considered this one myself. I hesitated as i’ve had a mixed experience with her previously but that may just be the time in which she was writing. i’ll certainly consider picking this up at some point!
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So pleased to be joining you Kaggsy, I really enjoy the Club years!
I’ve only discovered Bawden’s writing for adults in recent years but I’ve enjoyed what I’ve read of her so far. I hope you enjoy it if you get to it again – Penelope isn’t wholly likeable but she’s very believable.
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Two title’s I’m not familiar with. I’ve only read one Nina Bawden and that was so long ago I’m not sure if I did read it or only think I did!
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I’m glad I’m not the only one who thinks ‘I’ve read them before…haven’t I? Have I?’ Janet!
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Most enjoyable and nuanced reviews. Like others I feel I’ve read these books but can’t quite remember much about them Too many books over the years. Would be interesting to do a count starting from childhood.
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There are so many books I’ve forgotten, it would be lovely to have kept a list since childhood! Just this week in a charity shop I saw a picture book I loved as a child, that I’d forgotten completely: ‘Comic and Curious Cats’. A closer look revealed the author to be Angela Carter – I was completely astonished to find I’d started reading her about ten years earlier than I’ve always thought!
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How wonderful. I would have bought that straightcaway.
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I snapped it up 🙂
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Thanks so much for adding these to the club. I love Bainbridge, though haven’t read that one (what a great cover!) – and do often find her darkly, unsettlingly funny. I’ve only read one Bawden, which sounds quite similar to this one. You’re right – very very of its moment.
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Such a great cover! Bainbridge is definitely unsettling, I never know where she’s going to take me. I’m only just beginning to explore Bawden’s adult novels so this was an interesting read, a very 70s novel. Thank you for another great Club year Simon!
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The Club thing is a great idea, isn’t it? I’ve already looked into 1954 books for next time.
I’ve only read An Awfully Big Adventure by Bainbridge and I have The Bottle Outing Factory and The Dressmaker on the shelf. Thanks for reminding me that I should get to her books!
I’ve never read Nina Bawden but I like the sound of her books.
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Yes, I really enjoy the Club events! I’ve also already looked into 1954 and found two in the TBR 🙂
I’ve not read An Awfully Big Adventure although I saw the film adaptation many years ago. The Bottle Factory Outing I thought was very good.
I’m really enjoying getting to know Bawden as an adult writer now. I’d read her books for children but then never picked her up when I was older. I hope you enjoy her if you get to her Emma.
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