“Domestic life in the past was smelly, cold, dirty and uncomfortable, but we have much to learn from it.” (Lucy Worsley)

I’ve really enjoyed the three EH Young novels I’ve read but it’s been ages since I picked her up. I’m thankful to the 1937 Club, running all week and hosted by Kaggsy at Kaggsy’s Bookish Ramblings and Simon at Stuck in a Book for prompting me to get back to her!

 

Like the other novels by Young that I’ve read, Celia is set in the fictional Upper Radstowe (based on lovely Clifton in Bristol) amongst middle-class domestic life. Celia is forty-five, living in genteel shabbiness with her husband Gerald and their son Jimmy and daughter Catherine. She is quietly despairing.

Gerald is an architect who designs unimaginative houses that Celia despises: “here was the same puzzle of gain and loss, more money for the family and a little less beauty in the world.”

Young portrays with frankness that Celia and Gerald have a sexless marriage, because Celia cannot bear the thought of physical intimacy with her husband:

by neglecting some of the duties of a good housewife, she stored the energy necessary for avoiding friction; by avoiding as much as possible, Gerald’s demonstrations of affection, and she had almost perfected her technique, she could give him the friendship and the kindness which vanished when more was asked of her.”

But in all honesty, she also neglects those other housewife duties too because they hold no real interest for her. She is an indifferent housekeeper (I can definitely relate) and cook, and spends a lot of her time at step removed from her surroundings. She dreams of a lost love – Richard, the brother of schoolfriend Pauline – and talks to herself.

“She had always a secret pride in its intangible persistence, its difference from a love nourished by the senses, and a more secret fear that what gave it life was its dreamlike quality.”

Those around her are used to vagueness and detachment. Living nearby is her “very stupid” sister May, her solicitor husband Stephen and their daughters including Susan. Celia’s brother John inherited the family drapery business and also lives close by, with his wife Julia and their various offspring. Another sister Hester is living a scandalously single life in London.

May and Julia form a pair, keeping each other company with their distracting daily small rivalries.

“She was congratulating herself on a superior wit because these two had supplied her with so much unintentional amusement, but she knew she had supplied them with something they valued more than laughter, an opportunity for criticism and disapproval.”

As the above quote shows, Celia can be judgemental of others. There are times when she is really quite cruel to her relatives, telling them what to do and not being entirely kind about it. But she is also fond, loving, intelligent, silly and funny. She’s a wonderful, fully-rounded, very believable creation.

The least likable character is her brother John: “John’s sense of duty towards his family was chiefly confined to criticism.” Even loving wife Julia loses patience with him at one point:

“She was enraged by John’s masculine belief in the sufficiency of his lasting passion for her, his primitive conviction that she was honoured by it and for its sake must gladly endure his faults of character and his intolerance of her own. In this rarely candid moment, she searched her mind for any other reason why she should like him and could not find one, but he was a habit and she would have been lost without him.”

We follow the extended family through various dramas, some larger than others. Stephen takes himself off for a few days, leaving May wondering if she’s been abandoned. John has to face his eldest son not wanting to follow him into the business. Celia’s son Jimmy has a crush on May’s daughter Susan (first cousins – eek). Celia has to wrestle with her mother-in-law, and there various intrigues which amount to very little. As Celia observes:

I live in a teacup and forget it isn’t the whole world.”

However, Celia isn’t a comfort read. It is concerned with the realities of married life at a time when divorce was very rare and opportunities for women generally were very limited. Young portrays the frustrations, sadnesses, tedium, and even fear her characters experience alongside the small joys, affection and love in their lives.  It feels very real, and while it is not depressing it also doesn’t offer any false hope or sentiment either.

“The art of living, the only one Celia tried to practise, was as exacting as any other.”

By end of the novel the characters know themselves and each other slightly better, and have gained some wisdom and insight through small incremental steps. There are no major epiphanies and no huge outward changes. It is a finely written and closely observed tale of interwar middle-class lives that above everything else, carry on.

While it was an involving and affecting novel, I didn’t feel Celia was the strongest of Young’s work that I’ve read – there were too many superfluous characters and the light plotting couldn’t quite sustain the length. For me, it would have benefitted from cutting one branch of the family and around 100 pages. But EH Young not at her tip-top best is still so very good and there is a great deal to enjoy in Celia.

“She had a calm indifference to what anyone might think of her, not because she herself was indifferent people, but because while she was interested in herself, as any intelligent person must be, she did not expect or wish to arouse interest in others, she had no apologies to make for what she was not, or explanations of what she was.”

To end, a Bristolian classic:

22 thoughts on ““Domestic life in the past was smelly, cold, dirty and uncomfortable, but we have much to learn from it.” (Lucy Worsley)

      • It makes me think, how much does our mood about stuff generally, affect what we choose to read in the first place.

        Sometimes I look at my TBR and I think, I should chuck that out, I don’t want to read it. But then on another day, I look at the same book and think, I really want to read that one, I must make time for it soon…

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        • Oh absolutely! There are definitely books I’ve given up on, but then later returned to and really loved. Its so subjective and none of us are consistent in our moods or tastes. Having said that, there are also books I’ve picked up and within a few pages I know they will never be for me 😀

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  1. Thank you for your wonderful 1937 reviews this week! I really enjoyed reading this one and loved the quotes. I can also relate to being an indifferent housewife (as my mother used to say, I am always too interested in sticking my nose back in a book!). I think you really encapsulate what I love about E H Young’s writing with your comment about the characters gaining wisdom about themselves through small incremental steps. Even Young at her best can be appreciated. I read The Vicar’s Daughter last week, and, whilst I don’t think that was quite up there with Chatterton Square and Miss Mole imo, I still enjoyed it.

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  2. I haven’t read any Young and was thinking how brilliant this was when you said it wasn’t her best! There’s a lot here that resonates but I think the line about living in a tea cup is the best! Thank you for all your reviews this week, very appreciated!

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  3. Skimming your review of this for now as I have Celia in my TBR and would rather not know too much about it before going in, but it’s interesting to see that you found it a bit mixed. I shall approach it with muted expectations!

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    • If you’ve enjoyed EH Young then you’ll enjoy this Jacqui – I hope so! There’s still so much that’s excellent here even though I didn’t think it was her best. I’ll look forward to hearing your thoughts when you get to it.

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  4. This sounds fascinating – I have sometimes found her longer novels needed some trimming, and sounds like this is one of them, but will doubtless try for how interesting that central marriage is. And the word ‘sufficiency’ in the quote about her husband is so damning and brilliant.

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    • Yes this would definitely have benefitted from some trimming. But the characterisation and relationships are so well done. The portrayal of the sexless marriage is very clear and compassionate. I hope you enjoy this if you get to it Simon.

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  5. I love E H Young, her characters are fully rounded and I think she has a lot to say about subjects like women’s lives, marriage and motherhood. I enjoyed Celia very much though it isn’t my favourite of hers. Her books are among the ones I often feel I want to reread.

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