I never take enough books away with me. So having finished The Garden of Evening Mists during my New Forest weekend, I ducked into the Oxfam Bookshop in Lymington and was gratified to find a copy of The Queen of Dirt Island by Donal Ryan (2022). Ryan is one of my favourite contemporary authors and I was yet to read his most recent novel.
Characters from his previous novel Strange Flowers make a reappearance here, but they are not the main focus. The story belongs to Saoirse Aylward, her mother Eileen, and her paternal grandmother Nana who all live together in Nenagh, County Tipperary.
We follow Saoirse from her 1980s childhood to her thirties, with the tensions and strains, and unwavering warmth and love that the women create within their family home.
Saoirse’s father died a few days after she was born and she sometimes feels guilty for not feeling his loss.
“Every other house in the small estate that had children in it also had a father, a living one.
None of them looked like they were of much use except for cutting grass with the same shared lawnmower, taking turns to cut the verges in the small green area at the front of the estate and the smaller green at the back.”
The Aylward women are an enclosed, loving unit, viewed as somewhat eccentric by the rest of the town. Eileen is uninterested in men for the most part, her heart lying with her dead husband. She is sweary and gruff and no-one understands why she and her mother-in-law are living together.
“She realised that she and her mother rarely spoke properly at all. That most of mother’s speech was indirect, utterances flung around like fistfuls of confetti, vaguely aimed and scattering randomly. But she supposed this to be the way of all parents and child relationships. Her mother told her every single night that she loved her.”
Nana might be less sweary, but in her own way she is just as direct, such as when speaking to Saoirse about her Uncle Chris:
“Whatever he was at inside me he made a pure hames of my pipework. He started as he meant to go on, anyway, that’s for sure.”
His brother Paudie has a dramatic and mysterious life, helping on the farm until he is suddenly arrested and sent to prison.
“They never looked comfortable down here in the angular lowlands of the estate. They were shaped to the contours of hills and hedgerows, their feet only sure on giving ground.”
Yet it is Saoirse’s teenage years that bring the most disruption to the house. Ryan is excellent at capturing this time, such as this description of Saoirse’s first boyfriend:
“His miasma of Lynx and sweat and stolen cigarettes, his uncertain swagger, his damp hand in hers.”
But Saoirse is learning about the darker sides of life too, which have previously not infiltrated her safe home: self-harm, domestic abuse, suicide, sexual assault. Her mother and Nana can’t protect her from everything.
And within her family, there is a threatening presence: her uncle Richard. He is her mother’s brother, and while Eileen is estranged from her family, her father has left her the titular land. Richard wants it back, and this tension bubbles in the background through the years.
The tone of The Queen of Dirt Island felt very well-balanced, not shying away from trauma but not unrelentingly bleak either. Nana in particular provided humorous moments. The women all felt fully realised and believable, their voices beautifully evoked.
This is not a novel to read for positive portrayals of men, however. Nana advises young Saoirse:
“You only get one life, and no woman should spend any part of it being friends with men. That’s not what men are for.”
The Queen of Dirt Island is a warm-hearted book, compassionate to its flawed characters, which was a joy to read. I could have spent another 200 pages at least with the Aylward women.
Ryan writes with a poetic restraint, and the story is told through a series of vignettes. Each section is 500 words including a title, and at just 242 pages it’s a really quick read. Thankfully I’d also found a collection of Dorthe Nors short stories in the Oxfam bookshop so I managed to keep myself going on the return journey home 😉
“She was glad of mother’s unwavering impolitic nature, her peculiar loving manner, and she knew that Nana loved mother with the same gruff constancy.”
To end, the author reading one of the vignettes, which I read in an interview was based on a childhood experience with his mother:

I’ve really liked Ryan’s books, but really:
“You only get one life, and no woman should spend any part of it being friends with men. That’s not what men are for.”
How is this okay? Would it be ok if we said it about women? or trans people? I don’t think so.
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It’s not presented as being ok, it’s Nana’s opinion that is demonstrating the damaged relationships between men and women in the family. Sorry I didn’t make that clear. We’re not expected to agree with her.
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Phew!
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Glad the anti-men comment confusion was cleared up! I had not heard of Donal Ryan before (reading blogs is such a good education!) but I do like the excerpts you quote and the way this book seems to focus on the different relational dynamics so I will look out for him now. I’ve already checked and my library has this one😊. I seem to be discovering a lot of Irish writers this year and all of them are really good!
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He is really good on the relationships between people, and portraying the complexities despite writing very concisely. I hope you enjoy him if you give him a try!
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I’d like to meet the Aylward women again, soon. They’re not in his new novel which is a sequel to The Spinning Heart, but given the recurring characters from his previous books I’m hopeful.
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Ooh, hope springs eternal Susan! He does seem open to revisiting characters so fingers crossed. I’m looking forward to Heart, Be At Peace although I should probably re-read The Spinning Heart first.
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I hadn’t even heard of Donal Ryan, looks like I’ve got a lot of catching up to do!
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He’ll be quick to catch up on if you give him a try Jane, he’s very concise 😊
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A new author to me too, Madame B, and he sounds very good, if bleak at times. Thanks for the heads-up! And glad you tracked down some reading – I have a fear of not having enough books when I’m away so I always tend to overpack!
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He is really good Kaggsy – although I’ve not read everything, I’ve one novel and a short story collection left. He’s not too bleak because although he tackles some tough themes he’s always very compassionate to his characters.
I need to start overpacking too – my TBR is ridiculous, I’ve plenty to choose from 🤣
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This format sounds enticing, particularly in the context of reading while on a holiday. I periodically leaf through one of his books but haven’t yet taken the plunge.
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Yes the format worked really well for a holiday as you can easily put it down and pick it up again later. I hope you enjoy him if you do take the plunge!
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I’m glad you enjoyed this too, Madame Bibi. I loved the warmth of it despite all the starker things that happen. This was my first Ryan and I’m looking forward to more sometime.
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Lovely to hear you liked this one Mallika! I hope you enjoy further Ryans when you get to them.
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